How to Hook that Hottie

            So you’ve been cruisin’ all the profiles online and have chatted with a few, but one has really caught your eye. How do you go about catching their eye? We’ve pulled together a few tips to hook that hottie and make them yours!

• Keep your conversations light, but also on the common ground. When you find interests that both of you share, it makes it easier to keep the connection open and alive.
• Don’t dump all your issues on your interest just yet. We all have skeletons in our closet, but when you start to introduce your love interest to each of them personally after only two weeks, they’re gonna run. Ever heard of the saying ‘too much too fast’? There ya go.
• Don’t ask specifics of where they are, or rush into having a phone call and meeting up. Take it at their pace and be patient.
• Be their secret admirer! Go to the Secret Admirer part of this site and shoot them over an anonymous love letter. They will get four chances at a guess of whom it is. If they are just as interested, they will be sure to guess you!
• Give passion points to your love interest. This signifies that you are interested and would like to keep the romance alive. Who knows, if you give them enough passion points, you might be the one on the cruise to the Bahamas with them!
• Ask for a phone call when the time is right. You’ve chatted it up with them for hours online, now is your chance to hear their voice. Be polite and ask them if you can call them sometime. If they are cool with it, they will shoot over those digits faster then you can ask for them. If they would still like to keep it online for a little while longer, relax. Eventually you will have those digits.
• When you’re ready, go to the “Ask4Date” module. This gives you a helping hand when you’re ready to ask that special someone for a date. Simply input their member username and we’ll shoot them over an e-mail. The e-mail will let them know you’re interested in seeing them in person. If they accept you will receive a “Congratulations” e-mail. If they decline, keep things online until they are comfortable with meeting in person. Don’t pressure them to meet you if they are not comfortable yet. 
• So they accepted your date! Whoo-hoo!!!! Where are you going to go? You might want to keep it a little light at first and meet at a coffee shop somewhere in-between where you both live. That way you can see if that spark you feel online is still alive offline.
• Yeah, the spark is still there! So let’s go on a real date! Go to a nice restaurant for dinner. Guys, remember to bring flowers. Females totally dig flowers. Ladies, look nice! Guys love having a hot lady on their arm.

Keep these tips in mind when you’re looking for the right one and you will be sure to land the person of your dreams!

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